IT'S COLD AGAIN...AND A SURPRISE MEETING
SATURDAY, MAY 29, 2004
I was feeling pretty stupid a few days ago. I had gotten energetic and packed away all my winter stuff…it had been pleasant and sunny for several days, and I figured it was only going to get warmer. Then I realized that I would need some of those long sleeved things for our trip to Prague….especially considering the fact that it’s going to be cloudy and rainy while we’re there. And then, it rained here, and today it’s cool and windy…it feels more like the beginning of April than the first of June. Yesterday I had to put on a sweatshirt, and I never did really warm up. Plus we’re to the time of year where it can be warmer outside than it is inside…and this is especially true when you have stone walls that are three feet thick!
I forgot to write about an interesting situation that occurred the other day. We were having lunch in Ternana’s and I saw a little boy who looked American, and he also had on a tee shirt that said “Cardinal Football”, so, being from Louisville, I thought of the University of Louisville Cardinals. Art saw the boy’s mother, and struck up a conversation. They were from California, and Stanford University also has the Cardinals as their mascot. This family was staying in the area for two weeks, and luckily for them they had found both Ternana’s AND Stefania’s (the gelateria). As we stood there talking, another man came up to us, stuck out his hand and say “Hello! How are you?” Since Art was closer to him than I was, I followed Art’s lead and shook the hand of the man who had taken our money and given us ZERO service when we bought our house…yes, it was Graham!
I was astounded that Art was being so nice, but I chalked it up to the fact that we were in Ternana’s, amongst nice people who really wouldn’t want to hear the kind of tongue-lashing that Graham deserved. And here was Graham, acting as if nothing had happened or as if we were good friends or satisfied customers. He told us that he was showing a house in Ospedaletto to the couple sitting in the corner …he must have a lock on the houses in Ospedaletto.
For those of who came in late, Graham is the owner of the real estate company we used when we bought our house. Once we had paid him his commission, which is paid BEFORE the closing, he pretty much ignored us. We ended up getting more help and more information from the real estate agent representing the seller. This agent, Donatella of Tecnocasa in Marsciano, has since become our friend. She was the agent from whom Graham bought his house, and once she heard about the way Graham was ignoring us, and the extra charges he was adding, she was astounded. Although Graham’s website says that using his company is no more expensive than using a regular realtor, this is NOT true. They even charged us to receive money into their bank account for the deposit on the house!!! I won’t mention the company name or web address, because I DO NOT want anyone to find them and get ripped off like we did.
The fact that Graham is English and that we are Americans was also a big contributing factor to our problems. First of all, he had NO CLUE what questions we would have…questions concerning the difference between a house and a sale in the U.S., and the same in Italy. For residents of Britain or other EU countries, these differences would not be as great, but we, as Americans are a completely different matter. For the most part, we’re used to frame construction and 110v electricity, and houses that are less than 200 years old. We’re used to shingle roofs and windows with screens and storm windows. We know how the bank/mortgage system works. We know what questions to ask, and what things to look for. We know what a house inspection will cover. In Italy, none of this is the same, and Since Graham in English, he didn’t even know what he didn’t know!
So, back to Ternana’s….we chat with Graham as if we are old friends, and after a few minutes he finally says goodbye and returns to his table. Then…Art turns to me and says “WHO was that?” !!!!!!!! So I tell him…”that was Graham! Didn’t you know? Didn’t you figure it out when we was talking about Dorrie and showing a house to those people?” And of course he says no. He thought it was just someone he had forgotten…maybe he thought it was Adrian, the Englishman we had met a few months ago, I don’t know. I told him that I was surprised by how nice he had been, and told him that I was just following his lead. Of course now he’s getting upset, and saying “Well, if I had known that was Graham I certainly would NOT have shaken his hand! He’s lucky I didn’t punch him out!” And so on…..
I guess when you’re in business like Graham, everyone has to be your friend…at least until you get their money. I think he was just being nice to us so that he could tell the people he was with, “See? I sold them their house and look how happy they are!” What a load of crap! As mentioned in previous blogs, the other two couples we’ve met who also used Graham have both said that they too were quite disappointed with his service, although they didn’t have as many problems as we did. So, if you do know this company, please do NOT use them! And if you’re looking for a house in this area, and are looking at websites, it you run across a really nice looking website, you might want to contact me just to make sure you’re not getting involved with this jerk.
GARDENING, MORE SHOPPING
THURSDAY, MAY 20, 2004
Although we’ve been back only six days, once again we instantly feel at home, as if we have been here forever. What a wonderful feeling! Neighbors greet us with “Ben Tornata!” which means “welcome back”, more or less. At first I thought they were saying “you’re back”, and I would answer “Si!”. Luckily Art heard me do this, and told me what they were saying….now I can answer “grazie!”
We went to the garden center to get the rest of our plants, but the last shrub we need is temporarily out of stock. More will arrive next week, along with the last of the ground cover. I only needed one more bag of mulch, and a few more bags of dirt. I bought a torch that will burn citronella oil…I have a feeling that our yard might be buggy…the “park” behind us is already looking rather wild, and I don’t know whether anyone will cut the weeds. If we could get a long enough extension cord, we’d be tempted to buy a weed eater and cut it ourselves.
When we visited with Pia and Marko in Ospedaletto, we fell in love with the tile-topped iron table that they had in their sunroom. We have looked several times at Rinaldini, trying to agree on a size and a design. Art wants bigger and square or rectangular. I want smaller and round. I think with a round table we can seat four comfortable, but can squeeze in two more without much problem. With a larger square or rectangular table, it takes up so much room all of the time. Our patio is only 10 X 10, and a table and four chairs is about all there’s room for. We’re going to put a barbeque at the far corner, and I think the corner nearest to the door may be suitable for my “orto”, or kitchen garden.
Regarding the table. Wendy asked if we had looked at “Emu”, which is a factory in Marsciano. We had seen the signs, but of course had no idea what they made or sold. We followed the signs, and found it tucked away, WAY off the road. It was a huge place, and it took us a few minutes to find the front door. Once we found the entrance, we were told that this was only the factory and that we would have to go to the showroom near Magione…where we had just been the day before! We did take a catalog, and as I paged through it, I discovered that they didn’t have ANY tables with tile tops. So, that was that. But then….I started to think about some of the tables Maybe the table with the mesh top would work. The mesh top would help that patio look more open, wouldn’t it?
So, in fairness, we decided to look at Emu. Well, I decided and Art agreed to look. I promised to keep an open mind. At the showroom we saw in person what we had seen in the brochure…and liked it. We tried several chairs, and were amazed to learn that the chair we liked was actually ON SALE!!! If you don’t live in Italy, you have no idea how rare this is! Art said that he really did like this table, and we both liked the fact that it came in a dark brown color that we think will look really good with our patio stones. The only disappointment was that they won’t be able to deliver the set until after we return from Prague. Since we’re only here for five more days, I guess it’s not really so bad.
When we first bought the house I was so disappointed that our back yard was shady and I wouldn’t be able to have tomatoes or roses. Now that we are here in the summer, we’re seeing exactly where the sun does get through, and for how long. As long as I have enough basil to make pesto, I think I’ll be okay…it seems possible that tomatoes will be plentiful and cheap. So I’ve started four pots of basil, a pot of oregano and a pot of rosemary. Armando next door has all the parsley we could want, so I think I’m set…as long as the basil likes this spot. It gets a good dose of afternoon sun, so I’m hopeful.
On the same side of the patio I’ve also put in verbena, which also requires a good deal of sun. The back side of the patio got impatiens, since it’s always in the shade. Since for now I’m following Antonella’s garden plan, I’ve also added three large pots with “ortensie”…which is hydrangea. This variety is supposed to be winter hardy, even in a pot….another experiment. I sunk the post an inch or so just to give them stability, and to help them blend into the garden.
For the barbeque we had first looked at a factory outlet near Gran Casa, called Caminetti. We found the size that we liked, but the price was way more than we wanted to pay. As we would later find out, these frills have an advantage over the ones sold by Gran Casa and Obi…the have a metal grate on the surface where the wood or charcoal sits, which allows the fire to burn hotter. The barbeques we saw also had a metal grate attached to the back where wood is supposed to go. We saw pictures showing a fire blazing away within this grated holder…I’m still not sure how it works. The fire is basically BEHIND the area of the grate…maybe you burn the wood in the grate, then as the coals drop off, you’re supposed to drag the coals forward to be under the grate.
We couldn’t look at Gran Casa since we looked on Monday morning. Normally, most stores are closed on Monday mornings. We did ride down to Obi, knowing that their barbeques we set up outside where we could see them even if they were closed. When we arrived at Obi, we were surprised to find they were open. We looked at the selection, and didn’t like the fact that their grills didn’t have the metal grate under the fire area.
When we went back to Gran Casa later in the week, we saw that their grills were made the same as the ones at Obi. This is when we decided that the metal grate was the sign of a more expensive barbeque. We decided to go ahead and buy the one we liked at Gran Casa, only to discover that the one we wanted was sold out. We asked about buying the display modes. But since it was already assembled, they told us no, because it was too dangerous to transport, and too heavy to move. We would later find out just how true this was.
We drove back to Obi and saw the same grill that we liked at Gran Casa, and it was nine euro cheaper, AND it included a bucket of paint. Luckily for us, they had one in stock. We had been surprised when Gran Casa was sold out, but we remembered what Wendy had told us about trying to buy a fan last summer. We had already purchased two of those in preparation for the hot weather. For this reason, we decided that we’d better buy the grill now. When we were checking out, our cashier spoke English, and he told us that they would try their best to get the barbeque delivered today, but that it might not be until tomorrow. I don’t know if the shocked look showed on our faces, but this was an amazing thing!!! Delivery possibly TODAY, and if not today then the NEXT day!?! Wow! We’re used to waiting AT LEAST a week, and usually more for deliveries.
FRIDAY, MAY 21, 2004
The barbeque did NOT arrive until the next day, but it did come in the morning. Art and I were only able to carry a few pieces into the back yard….wow, is it ever heavy!!! We called Wendy to see if she and Giuseppe would like to come for dinner in return for Giuseppe’s help in moving and assembling the barbeque. We decided that we could go ahead and sink the concrete blocks that would from the footers for the grill, and to set the first piece in place. Getting all this level would be time consuming, but once that was done, the rest should be relatively easy. As luck would have it, Enrico and Wilma stopped by later in the week and Art and Enrico were able to move the last two pieces into the back yard. Not that we were worried about them sitting in front of the house…it’s not like anyone was going to run off with them!
Enrico and Wilma had come by to talk with us in person. Art had called Enrico on the phone to tell him about the sister cities festival that was going to be held in Perugia this weekend. Jill and Larry are selling pictures on American Indians, and we thought Enrico might be interested. Enrico thought it would be easier to talk face to face, so he and Wilma stopped by this morning. We were glad they did, since this gave us the opportunity to give them the Texas Longhorn belt buckles that Art had found while we were in the states.
Enrico started to tell us about his newest project…he wants to bring Americans to Italy to see his ranch, and for us to show them around. He told us that he would pay us for this service. He plans to put Old West style buildings on his ranch…I’m thinking of all the Western movies he’s seen with the typical Old West town…wonder if he’ll have a saloon with the swinging doors? Anyway, his main objective is to bring Americans to Italy, and to make it affordable by eliminating the travel agency. We gave him Wendy’s number…she speaks not only English and Italian, but also Spanish…which is also spoken by many people in the Southwest. Since she is a translator by trade, this could be a perfect second job for her…not that she needs a second job she already has AT LEAST two other jobs that I know of, but if she has the time and desire, this could be a little extra income.
Before Enrico and Wilma left, we showed them the progress on our garden, and also asked Enrico who we could ask about the park behind us. He said he would make some calls, and then offered to help Art move the remaining tow pieces of the barbeque. We made arrangements to meet on Sunday so that we can go to the festa in Perugia together, and I suggested that we all go to the fest in Ripavella later. Enrico had originally invited us for dinner on Sunday, and I thought this would be a good was of keeping Wilma out of the kitchen. I specifically said that we could eat at the festa, and they seemed to like this idea.
I need to take a few pictures of the barbeque in pieces so that I can post some pictures. The one we bought is about the smallest size, and it is possible to buy them without the chimney. Because of the trees, we thought the chimney would be safer, and it also adds some interest to the garden. The barbeques are available in many other sizes, and it’s even possible to get one that has not only the grill area, but also an oven…wouldn’t I just love to have enough room for my very own wood-fired pizza and bread oven!!!
Here are some pics of the barbeque, unassembled...
OUR MAY VISIT TO THE STATES
MONDAY, MAY 17, 2004
Our stay in the states is almost over. The past four weeks seem to have rushed by; although I think the fact that I was sick for the first two weeks had something to do with this feeling. We haven’t gotten to see nearly as many people as we would have liked. With Art working at the track and me being sick, we just didn’t have the time. Today we had lunch with our friends Ron and Becky, and then went to see “Troy” with Brad Pitt. I know there are lots of other movies I should have seen…movies like “Monsieur Ibrihim”, or the third installment of “the Lord of the Rings” trilogy, but time has run out, and I just wanted to see how wonderful Brad looked….would you be surprised if I said he looked like a Greek god? He really bulked up for this role, but not to the point of grossness. Since I am definitely an “arm” person, I really enjoyed admiring his physique, and the movie wasn’t bad either…not quite as good as “Gladiator” but still entertaining.
Tomorrow I have an eye doctor appointment…I still need to have my eyes dilated, and I need to have one on the tear-duct plugs replaced…do you know about these? For those of us who wear contact lenses and are over forty, these are really great…my eyes are so much more comfortable now that I’ve had the plugs. Art’s eye doctor doesn’t really approve of them, but in my opinion, Art’s eye doctor is a sadist who likes to see other people suffer. I’m glad my doctor recommended the plugs to me, and so far, I’ve been very pleased.
This morning I went to get the results from my colonoscopy, and it was good news…just one tiny polyp, which is now history, and I don’t have to have another test for five years. So far this trip I’ve had a pap smear, a mammogram, an eye exam, a colonoscopy, bought new contacts, refilled all my prescriptions, had my teeth cleaned and gotten my hair cut! I didn’t have my cholesterol checked, but I’ll do that in December. I’ve been too bad and I know it, so there’s no point in hearing the bad news confirmed by my doctor. I’ll start exercising when we get back to Italy, and hopefully I’ll be five pounds lighter when we return.
We can’t wait to get back home…Wendy says our patio looks wonderful, and I’m dying to finish planting the back yard. I need to put up a new clothesline in the back…the one we have is too short….I hope we can figure out what we need to do to install the hooks in the walls of the house, and I hope they’re strong enough to hold the wet laundry!
Last Thursday Nicholas and I flew to North Carolina to visit with my son and his wife, and more importantly, my granddaughter! She’s two and a half, and of course she’s the cutest and smartest two year old around! Frank continues to speak only Spanish to her, and she is quite bilingual. She does a pretty good job at keeping the two languages separate, but every once in a while she’ll throw in a Spanish word in the middle of a sentence. We really had a nice visit, but Nicholas discovered that taking care of a toddler is VERY tiring. By our fourth day, he was ready for a vacation from his vacation! Siobhan loved having him around, and wanted to play hide and seek constantly. She loved it when he scared her by popping out of his hiding place. She loved having him dress her up in all her dress up clothes, and she really loved the Snoopy doll he brought for her.
Saying goodbye on Sunday was tough…we told her we’d visit her in her new house in Tampa, but that won’t be until December or January. I did have to assure her that Art would come too…every day she asked in her most concerned voice, “Where’s Grandpa Art?”, and every day I had to explain that he had to go to work, but that he would see her soon. I don’t think he should miss any more trips to see her…she’s just too cute, and we all know how quickly they grow up. By the time we see her next winter, she’ll have a new brother or sister, so I was lucky to get this one on one time with her, and also to have Nicholas with her.
SUNDAY, MAY 23
We’re back home! And guess what? It’s STILL raining! And not all that warm, either! This is wonderful for the plants we put in the ground before we left, but we were sure that the rain would be over by now and that it would be much warmer. We went to the garden center yesterday to buy more plants to finish up, but every time I walk outside it starts to sprinkle.
Today San Venanzo is celebrating the Ascension with a procession. The route is lined with wild flowers and pictures on the streets make with flower petals. The scent is unbelievable…I think the white flowers are jasmine, and I wish I could remember the name of the yellow flower…it grows wild everywhere. The women were out early this morning creating the designs, and luckily the wind and rain held off.
To backtrack a bit, we had an interesting trip home. We left Louisville on Thursday, flying first to Detroit, then directly to Rome. The plane to Rome was a new one, with screens on each seatback, and a choice of movies and music. Usually I try to sleep a little on the eastbound flight, but this time I was completely unsuccessful. Art did manage to catch a short nap, which is unusual for him. The crew was very nice, which is always a pleasant surprise on Northwest.
We (I) managed to fit everything in the allowed number of suitcases, meaning we didn’t have to buy another suitcase, or pay the $110 surcharge. We bought lots of “stuff”…. spices like cayenne pepper, cumin, celery seed and lemon pepper. Brownie mix. Cornbread mix. Powdered sugar. Vinyl coated shelves. My favorite mixing bowl. Hair color. Vitamins and prescriptions. Cold medicine. Throw rugs for the kitchen. A small round table. For Wendy, coffee creamer, marshmallows and a gas powered wine opener. All of it seemed to be small, but when put together, we filled four large suitcases, two carry-ons, plus a large purse and a computer bag.
I had to rearrange the suitcases…one weighed NINETY pounds after my first packing! If the suitcase weighs more than sixty five pounds it will be assessed a surcharge, so I moved some stuff around, and I think they all ended up weighing around sixty pounds each. We still had quite a few clothes in the states. Some we brought with us, and I made a list of the ones that are still in Louisville so that we don’t bring too much with us next December. Art bought two pairs of shoes, and with his size twelve feet, those took up a fair amount of space!
Our flight was delayed for almost in air in Detroit, but we made up most of the time and arrived in Rome only a few minutes behind schedule. As luck would have it, Wendy arrived right on time, but our luggage did not! Somehow, two of the four checked bags were still in Detroit. We had to file a report, and they told us the bags would arrive the next day and would be delivered to us. One of the missing bags was the hard-sided one, with most of the “stuff”….the spices I can’t find in Italy…the kitchen gadgets, scented candles, hair color, etc. They told us the luggage would arrive tomorrow and would be delivered to us.
The drive home was tiring, especially since I had no sleep on the plane. Amazingly, once we hit Terni, I really perked up…now it was starting to look like home! Wendy dropped us off, and we started to unpack the suitcases. One good thing about the missing suitcases is that we didn’t have to worry about fitting everything into the car! Oh, and we also weren’t overloaded with so much stuff to put away! I started a load of laundry and we looked over the mail.
Art wanted to take the car to Ford since we had noticed some oil on the garage floor the day we left…don’t you just love how that always happens? Anyway, Wendy and I had talked him out of that, and we had also talked him out of going to the bank to convert our money. While we were in the states we had wired money to our dollar account at Cassa di Risparmio in Ponte San Giovanni. This account is for dollars only, and costs €50 per year. The advantage is that we usually get a better exchange rate at this end, and also we can convert only what we need, if the rates are not favorable…of course, the rates haven’t been good since we got here last September! This is the primary reason we made sure to register for absentee ballots!
While we were in Italy, Wendy had gone into the bank to close our checking account there. Our mortgage was on automatic payment, but since we opened the PostalBank account, we haven’t used it for anything else. Cassa di Risparmio has more fees than the PostalBank, and it just didn’t seem to be worth keeping. When Wendy told Corrado that we wanted to close the account due to the high fees, he offered to reduce the fees by half, and also to get us an Italian credit card…something we had tried (and failed) to do at the PostalBank. Since the PostalBank seems to be very good for some things and very bad for others, we decided to keep the Cassa di Risparmio account for now…we think that having a relationship with a “real” bank my come in handy some day, and will be well worth the (smaller) fees we’ll pay.
The exchange rate on the day of our return was $1.19, and went up to $1.20 later in the day. Art was scared to death that it was on the rise, but we now had to wait until Monday afternoon and hope for the best. When you are talking about thousands of dollars, every penny makes a big difference! When we converted $21,000, first the bank took a small fee for receiving the money. I don’t know if U.S. banks do this or not, but we first encountered this situation when we rented an apartment here two years ago. I hate it, but it’s just a fact of life. Anyway…With just under $21,000, at the rate of $1.198, we ended up with €17,500…so this is something that has to be taken into account. You can’t just think dollars for euro, because you WILL get hurt! The good news is that when we went to the bank on Monday the rate was back to $1.19. It’s always a gamble…you never know when it’s going to go up, how long it will stay up, or why.
On Saturday, the weather was gorgeous! As previously mentioned, it had been cool and very rainy while we were gone. This was great for our newly planted garden, but we had really expected to come back to warm weather. We tell people that our weather is like northern Georgia or southern Tennessee, but it’s really not. The winters are very humid, which make the milder temperatures FEEL colder, and we’ve had an awful lot of rain…maybe this is why the “green heart of Italy” is so green!
We had planned to stay home all day on Saturday, in anticipation of our luggage being delivered. When no one had called by early afternoon, Art called the airport, and after three calls, the bags had finally arrived, BUT…they wouldn’t be delivered until Tuesday! The company who picks up the luggage from the airport then gives it to a courier company, and they didn’t work on the weekends! Pooh!
We drove down to Marsciano to restock at the Coop, then stopped in Ternana’s for some pizza. Four weeks is a very long time to go without one of Marco’s pizzas! We had brought some small gifts for everyone, and they were so excited! The kids seemed to like the toys, but the hats we had brought for Pino were even more popular…with the kids, that is! Rita and Marushka loved the horse themed earrings, and Marco seemed to like the belt buckles Art had selected. Marco had asked Art to bring him back a belt buckle, because he collects them, so we were happy to oblige.
Luckily for all concerned, we were there very early in the evening when business was slow, so we got a chance to visit, and then Rita invited us for lunch next Tuesday! I was floored…this is the only day these people have free, and they want us to come for lunch! Needless to say, we accepted. Now I have to figure out what to take…flowers? Wine? Maybe something baked, but what? Chocolate chip cookies? Maybe brownies? I’m still thinking about it.
On Sunday morning around nine, the phone rang, and it was someone asking if we would be home to receive our luggage! Yes!!! And it arrived safe and sound, completely intact, around 1 o’ clock. I felt like a kid in a candy store, looking at all the things I had bought…some of which I had forgotten about, so it was almost like Christmas! Art was especially glad to see the other new show he had just bought…I had separated the pair, and we both wondered whether he might end up with only one shoe.
As I said earlier, the streets of San Venanzo were decorated with pictures made of flower petals, to celebrate the feast of the Ascension today. Just outside our door we had a large cross made from the bright yellow flowers that grow wild along the roads. I can’t remember the name, sorry. Jasmine was also used to make some of the designs…this was obvious by the strong scent that filled the air. I walked around town taking pictures of the various designs…they were located along the route the procession would take after mass. I took the pictures in the “best quality” mode on my digital camera, so I think they’ll be too large to post, but I’ll try later.
The streets were blocked off for several hours, and once we heard the procession beginning, we went outside to watch. At the top of the hill the priest had stopped to say some prayers, then they moved towards us. In the courtyard in front of the volcano museum a small altar had been set up. A chalice had been made with flowers on the ground in front of the altar, and two little girls dressed in white with golden angel wings attached stood waiting. The procession seemed to consist of only men, beginning with the men who carried the large statue of Jesus on the cross, followed by more men, then a man carrying a large speaker, then finally the priest, who was wired, and whose voice was being broadcast over the speaker.
The priest said a few prayers at the altar, and just as he was finishing, it started to rain. It had looked threatening all morning, and had sprinkled briefly a few times, but now it seemed more serious. We went back into our house, and the procession continued down the street, back towards the church. I’m not sure whether there were any further services or not.
We started to work in the garden several times, but it kept trying to rain. Finally later in the afternoon it cleared up, and I was able to plant some of the things we had bought on Saturday. I also worked some compost into the dirt…it’s hard to believe how bad this soil is…I mean, it’s just DEAD! I’m hoping that all my planting isn’t in vain! By the time we finished, it was dark…or maybe I was just forced to stop by the darkness. We had a quick dinner of tuna fish sandwiches and called it a night.
Today, Monday the 24th, we took the car to Ford. Everything seems to be okay, so for now we’ll just keep a piece of cardboard under the car to see if the leak continues. I was amazed at how quickly they took care of us…we just drove up, told them our problem, and the whisked the car away. In less than 30 minutes the mechanic was back with the car. We also asked about the latch for the hood that had been ordered in MARCH!!! They say it will be in next week, but that remains to be seen.
We then had time to check out a few places for an outdoor grill. The ones here are made of concrete and have chimneys…of course you can get the standard American style grill, gas or charcoal fired, but I’d love to get one of these barbeques…it’s almost like having a piece of furniture on the patio! So far, we haven’t found one we like at the right size AND the right price. We asked Marco if he knew of a good place to buy one, and he recommended Gran Casa. We had been by there this morning, but most stores aren’t open on Monday morning, and Gran Casa was closed as expected. We did see a large selection of grills sitting in their parking lot, so we’ll go back later to see what they have.
We met Wendy at the bank later on, then stopped at the garden center to buy a few more plants. We checked out a place that Wendy had told us about for garden furniture, but they didn’t have the tile topped tables that we (Art) want. We then headed back to San Venanzo, where our first stop was Mauro’s office. We wanted to pay him the remainder of the money we owe him…then we discovered we had misread his bill, and we still have a balance. It’s not much, and he told us not to worry about it. Our financial situation right now leaves much to be desired, but we are trying to look for the light at the end of the tunnel.
The day was incredibly beautiful, and it was a joy to work in the garden. I bought some rosemary, oregano and basil and put them in pots. I bought a large bush, whose name I can’t remember…Acuba? Something like that. Anyway, we had one of these plants in the states, and the will grow in the shade, so we thought it would be perfect for the large pot we want to put next to the house. I also bought some impatiens to go inside the ring of convalleria I planted yesterday, and some verbena for the area next to the patio. This area gets sun in the afternoon, and I’m hoping it’s enough for the verbena. I want some color, and it was a toss up between the verbena and petunias…and yes, the do have “the wave”! As with every garden this will be a work in progress, as we find out what works and what doesn’t. The biggest problem with small gardens is that you never have enough room to try out the new stuff you see. And of course for me, not being able to have my McCartney rose, with no hope of having a rose of ANY type, was very sad.
If you’ve never heard of the McCartney rose, I highly recommend it. The fragrance is unbelievable! I only believe in roses that SMELL like roses, and the McCartney roses will fill a room with their perfume! Sherry and David have given my rosebush a wonderful new home in their front yard, and they say it’s VERY happy there.
TUESDAY, MAY 25
The man who put in our patio stopped by yesterday….Armando had offered to pay him for us, but Art wanted to thank him personally for his work. I had never met him before, so it was nice to meet him. He did a beautiful job on the patio. The amount of stones we had turned out to be exactly right…I was hoping it would turn out like that, since I didn’t know what he would do if he ran out while we were gone. Armando had asked him to cement the walkway between our garden and his building. Of course it’s much less messy now, and Armando’s wife won’t have to worry about her clothes getting muddy if the fall off the line.
Well, I’ve rambled on, as usual, and what started out as the end of our U.S. visit blog has turned into our “back in Italy” blog. We did enjoy our stay in the states. We stayed with my sister this time, and really enjoyed her company. She is in the process of buying our mom’s house, and has already moved in. Things are still in boxes, but she made amazing progress in the short time we were there. Her biggest project now is to get her other house ready for sale. This house is a ninety year old, three story farmhouse, and just getting it presentable and clean is a big job. We are hoping that it goes up so sale soon, so that we can close my mom’s estate.
This location was much better for Art than if we had stayed with my daughter. She lives way out, and with Art having to go to work during this trip, Terri’s house was not only closer, but also offered more options. To get to Churchill Downs from Angela’s house via the expressway can be a disaster if there is an accident on I-71…there are no exits for miles, and he would have been trapped. He really enjoyed his time at the track, but was ready to leave by the end of our last week. The money was nice, and the tips during Derby week were wonderful….and this year, Art actually picked the Derby winner!
For me, aside from being sick for 2+ weeks, the visit was wonderful. I got to drive, and go to Target. I got to watch Oprah and HGTV. We both got to read the newspaper everyday, and could understand the news whenever we turned it on. I was able to take care of a lot of business over the phone…things that just aren’t possible from Italy, or would be very costly. You can’t dial an 800 number from Italy, and for many companies all they list is an 800 number. I updated our address information and new insurance information with as many people as I could think of. We use my sister’s address as our mailing address in the states, and now that she is in her new house, everything needs to be sent there. As anyone who has ever moved knows, there are so many people to notify.
We then updated our driver’s licenses, and registered to receive absentee ballots for the November election. These will be sent to us in Italy as soon as the ballots are decided. Art got a new International Driver’s License from AAA, to carry him through to our December visit. He is suppose to take the test for the Italian driver’s license within one year of residency, which would make him due in October, but neither of us thinks that is possible…the book is large…..maybe 10” by 12”, and about an inch thick…and of course it’s all in Italian. For now he’ll try to get by with his U.S. license, and if we get stopped, he’ll plead ignorance and then decide what to do.
I sold my car while we were in the states. When we moved here at the end of September, we knew that we would return in mid December for a six week visit. The small insurance premiums made keeping it a cheaper option than having to rent a car. When we got ready to come back in January, that didn’t seem to be the prime time to sell a car, so I kept it until this visit. I was hoping to sell my car right before I left for North Carolina, and luckily it worked out perfectly. The car was a 1994 Acura Integra that I had bought new. It only had 78,600 miles on it, so I got a nice price for it
The flower decorations for Ascension Sunday...
VACATION UPDATE
SATURDAY, MAY 8, 2005
Our vacation in the states is half over. We've been here two weeks and two days, and of that time, I've been sick for two weeks and one day...coughing, sneezing, blowing, draining. Addicted to cherry cough drops. I have kleenex in every pocket of every outfit I've worn. I just can't seem to shake this. At first I didn't go to the doctor because I thought it was just a cold. I bought some Zircam, the stuff that's supposed to shorten the duration of a cold...I've had good luck with it in the past, but maybe this isn't a cold. I think this is just what we call "the Ohio Valley crud". Every time I think I'm getting better, I have a relapse, like tonight, when I woke up at 3 a.m., coughing, coughing, coughing. I had to go to the basement and dig through the suitcases that have already been packed to find some cold pills. I'm typing this as I wait for them to kick in.
Art and I have both had several doctor's appointments. We've both had our teeth cleaned. I had my eyes checked, had a mammogram and a pap smear. On Tuesday I'll have a baseline colonoscopy. Yesterday we went for Art's checkups with his back doctors, and he saw the dermatologist to have a few spots on his face frozen off. We've refilled most of our prescriptions, and should be set for several months. In addition to saving money, refilling our prescriptions by mail allows us to get a three month supply, which is very helpful in our situation.
Since I've been sick, I haven't talked to or seen very many people. I did stop by the Hikes Point Post Office on my second day here, before I was coughing like crazy. I've been to Target and KMart and Kohls, and bought everything on the list I had been compiling. I have coffee creamer and marshmallows for Wendy, and tons of odds and ends for us. Chili powder, cornbread mix, shelf liner, powdered sugar, yeast. A throw rug for the kitchen. Silk flowers. Kitchen odds and ends. A few DVD's.
I mailed a box of books back to Italy. I hope this box makes it. When we mailed our books to Italy last August, five of the six boxes arrived within eight weeks. We had all but given up on the sixth box, and then it finally arrived in January, in perfect condition. No hint as to where it had been or why it had been delayed for three months.
I got our taxes filed and cleared up a few business matters. Email may be wonderful, but it's so nice to be able to pick up the phone, talk with the person in charge, and clear up problems immediately. Our TSP accounts finally got transferred to our IRA accounts. I listed my car for sale in the paper. Oh, and I got my computer fixed...turns out that the driver I downloaded WAS the right one, but for whatever reason, it was unable to fix the problem due to the new Quicken program I had installed. The computer repairman ended up having to call Toshiba, so I guess it was worth dragging the computer back with me.
Art has been working at Churchill Downs...Derby week wasn't very pretty, and Derby Day itself was rainy, but since then the weather has improved. The last few days it's be in the mid 80's...I'm ready to turn on the air conditioner! Since the track is closed on Monday and Tuesdays, those have been the only days Art and I have been together, but with me being sick, we really haven't done much. We did go to see a movie tonight..."Mystic River". We still need to see the third installment of "The Lord of the Rings" trilogy, as well as several others. The new Brad Pitt movie comes out next week, and I really hope to see it before we leave.
Nicholas and I are going to North Carolina on Thursday to see Siobhan. I can't wait to have both grandkids together! We'll return on Sunday, and then we'll only have three days before we return to Italy. I hope the patio has been laid. Art's last day at the track will be next Sunday, so we'll have Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday to tie up any loose ends and pack. Our plans for Prague are set for ten days after we return to Italy.
Well, the pills I took earlier seem to have kicked in. I've stopped coughing and seem to have dried up. I hope I can get some sleep. We're both enjoying our time here, visiting friends, seeing familiar sights. I'm enjoying driving. Once we go back to Italy, we won't return to the states until Christmas, so that will be our longest continuous stretch in Italy. During that time, I think we'll finally be able to settle in and feel like we really live there...since we were there for only three months before we came home last Christmas, and since we were only there for three months before this trip, our stays still have the feel of an extended vacation. Of course, now that we're retired, we tell everyone that we're on permanent vacation, but I'm looking forward to settling in to the day to day rythyms of life in Italy.
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